tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7474005001391922061.post5525128686441306591..comments2022-11-07T03:07:51.237-06:00Comments on Creating the Relationship of Your Dreams: Intimacy…Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7474005001391922061.post-904107505809498872009-04-11T10:04:00.000-05:002009-04-11T10:04:00.000-05:00Pam, Thanks for your comments! The "struggle in i...Pam, Thanks for your comments! The "struggle in intimacy is in my head" comment is really insightful and helpful to promote intimacy in a loving relationship. It seems that women more than men have a "to do list". The impact of the "list" often creates a sense of being overwhelmed and decreases interest in intimacy. I would be interested in learning your strategies for quietening the "to do list".Russ Hardestyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08551172551455521451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7474005001391922061.post-66504385637190017122009-04-11T03:27:00.000-05:002009-04-11T03:27:00.000-05:00Yes! I want to be cared for and CARED for! That sa...Yes! I want to be cared for and CARED for! That says alot. My spouse and I have been married for 32 years and I've experienced our relationship from giggly in bed, to passionate in bed, to mad in bed to "sleeping" in bed...As we grow older the intimatcy definition changes for me. Intimatcy also for me is just sitting quietly, or driving for miles quietly or walking just hearing our footsteps crunch the leaves, holding hands. My usual struggle in intimatcy is in my head - I have to intentionally stop my daily to do list, my past and future stuff and live in the present moment. That's what I want to improve on!! Pam FitzAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com